Very casual, we both had mutual friends and met in college but I had a girl at the time so we were in each others friend-zones.

"Want to get high"

I was at a party at my friend's house, and he invited a girl over who brought my last girlfriend with her. When she got there, though, she was drunk as fuck. She didn't even make it through the front door, she missed the step and fell through the screen in the door. By the end of the night we were both wasted and I don't even remember how the night ended. I woke up alone fully clothed so I imagine nothing exciting happened.

She was friends with the girl who sat next to me in history class.

The technical first time was when me and a friend were driving around town and he spotted her leaving her job and pulled over to talk to her. He knew her and they were kind of big bro-little sis to one another. I didn't really say much to her then, though.

The second time was going to see a movie with a big group of friends. She kind of automatically gravitated toward me because my friend had talked me up a bit before we officially met. I kind of fell for her that night, but she had a boyfriend, a guy I still genuine despise that I think she would've gone back to up to about maybe two years ago when he popped out a kid. He wanted to have her on the side I think, but she wanted something serious with him. But yeah, never got a shot with her until about 2 years later, we dated for about a month, it was all good, but work and shitty roommates added drama to her life and we called it quits until things settled down in her life. It's been about 5 years, she's moved to Austin, TX,and I kind of doubt we'll ever be more than friends ever again, which sucks because I think we had something.

She was a friend of a friend. I met her for the first time at our town's community center.

"Hey you wanna go with me to get a cigarette."

We were the last two awake at a party.

She did, but I'm glad I don't do that smoking shit anymore.