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| If you could choose, would you be loved, feared, or respected by everyone you know? | |
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MTM
Posts : 2369 Age : 25 Hailing From : San Diego, California Status : Welcome back to my world.
| Subject: If you could choose, would you be loved, feared, or respected by everyone you know? March 20th 2015, 11:53 pm | |
| What's the reasoning behind your choice? Discuss. |
| | | Impact EAW Hall of Famer
Posts : 2487 Age : 27 Hailing From : The Upper Room Status : You broke the rules you can't break.
| Subject: Re: If you could choose, would you be loved, feared, or respected by everyone you know? March 21st 2015, 12:01 am | |
| If I had a magic red button with which I could end all of my troubles in life, of course I'd have no reason not to press it, but what happens after I do? Nothing is difficult. Nothing is worth struggling for. I have the ability to press it into existence with the push of a mere button. That's the thing; half of the satisfaction in gaining things you want is knowing you worked as hard as you possibly could to get there and it paid dividends. |
| | | Draven
Posts : 234 Age : 34 Hailing From : Parts,Unknown Status : All of those who spread evil and do not accept the word of God shall parish
| Subject: Re: If you could choose, would you be loved, feared, or respected by everyone you know? March 21st 2015, 12:03 am | |
| Respected. To me loved and respect are a lot alike in this case. for people only respect people they look u to or care about. |
| | | Venom
Posts : 1514 Age : 27 Hailing From : Your local bar Status : Pass me a beer
| Subject: Re: If you could choose, would you be loved, feared, or respected by everyone you know? March 21st 2015, 12:10 am | |
| Loved or respected, but I'd rather earn that than to just make it happen so easily. |
| | | Mr. DEDEDE EAW Hall of Famer
Posts : 3518 Age : 34 Hailing From : The Gay Meat Community Status : #LoveWins
| Subject: Re: If you could choose, would you be loved, feared, or respected by everyone you know? March 21st 2015, 12:11 am | |
| Fear comes with negativity, Love comes with unpredictability, but Respect is Respect. I choose that any day of the week. |
| | | TRE
Posts : 2777 Age : 28 Hailing From : Charlotte Status : ULT
| Subject: Re: If you could choose, would you be loved, feared, or respected by everyone you know? March 12th 2016, 12:21 pm | |
| Loved. I'd have so much free stuff. |
| | | J-Dynasty 2? Showdown
Posts : 2747 Age : 32 Hailing From : Scarborough Ontario Status : I'm out, for now. I imagine my return, but if not, it was good times overall. Much love. J.
| Subject: Re: If you could choose, would you be loved, feared, or respected by everyone you know? March 12th 2016, 2:28 pm | |
| I'm conflicted between love and respect, I think I actually prefer respect BUT I think I can establish respect in people around me more than I can love so I think an automatic all love me bonus would serve me better since I'd lack it more otherwise. |
| | | LVCIAN
Posts : 5167 Age : 29 Hailing From : THE PRAIRIE STATE Status : I'm not your fucking prey.
| Subject: Re: If you could choose, would you be loved, feared, or respected by everyone you know? March 12th 2016, 2:28 pm | |
| Respected although I'd love to be feared. |
| | | ThePizzaBoy Dynasty
Posts : 1073 Status : Pizza Turns Cold
| Subject: Re: If you could choose, would you be loved, feared, or respected by everyone you know? March 12th 2016, 2:35 pm | |
| Respect. I've done everything in my power to get it, and I still don't have it. |
| | | Jacob Senn Dynasty
Posts : 1201 Age : 30
| Subject: Re: If you could choose, would you be loved, feared, or respected by everyone you know? March 12th 2016, 3:29 pm | |
| Respect. Fear is something that's bound to come back at you later down the line, love is something that will blind you in the long run, but respect is something I find valuable. A person doesn't have to like you to respect you, a person who respects you will be there when you need them, and respect is something that will go a long way for you. It's hard to get, but hopefully with what I've done over the time I've spent in EAW, I've earned the respect of enough people here. |
| | | Lioncross Showdown
Posts : 623 Age : 31 Status : Team Special Treatment
| Subject: Re: If you could choose, would you be loved, feared, or respected by everyone you know? March 12th 2016, 4:24 pm | |
| If I started with one and was able to gain the other two through other means, I'd choose to be feared. To be feared commands a level of respect (in most cases of fear, I'll get to the exception) that's fairly hollow, but the fact that respect exists within fear can work as a starting point to build trust; someone that you fear is a lot less scary when you know they're on your side. From that, respect and love may eventually come. It'd take a lot of long, hard work and a lot of misery in the process, but that's not too different from what most people experience in life. And, even small gains of respect and love feel like a hell of a payoff. The one exception - the instance where fear doesn't involve any respect at all - is when enough people hate you to the point where they're courageous enough to band together against you. That's definitely a bad situation, but I don't think being hated inherently comes with being feared.
If I chose one and wasn't able to gain the others through any means, I'd choose to be loved. I might've picked the path of most misery in the above paragraph, but I'm not picking misery for life. And, respect on its own just seems kinda hollow. So you're looked up to as a superior by your peers - puff your chest in pride a few times, and after that, big whoop. |
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